I read on Facebook this post. IT said a young woman asked her grandmother how she did it. How she dealt with adversity. The grandmother put on 3 pots of boiling water. I one pot she put in carrots, another she put eggs and the third she put in coffee and waited about 20 minutes. What happened to the boiled things? well the carrot got soft, the egg got hard and the coffee changed its adversity into something good. Grandma then asked which are you, the carrot, egg or coffee? 

So how do you handle adversity that comes to your life?  Do you let it soften you? or does it harden you? or do you change the adversity into something good? 

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